I'm usually a Dom, now whether that's because it's what's expected of me or whether it's just the position I've always been in is up in the air. My partner is a hardcore sub to a point where simply initiating turns them into a foggy mess. Any doms here will understand the frustrating/ rewarding feeling that comes along with a job well done. But I've wanted to explore my submissive side for a while now. And I'm not sure how to do that. My partner just turns their brain off and expects me to kinda do everything I need to do for both of our pleasure like I said doms understand. But they don't know how to Dom me back, just period, they don't know how to make a plan or stick to a persona. They get embarrassed or misunderstood when I explain my sub thoughts. And I just have no choice but to take the twins back when it happens because otherwise no one will be having a good time. I'm already a little insecure about experimenting and it made worse by having a partner who doesn't know how to meet me half way. Any advice on how I can coach them without ruining the moment for both of us?