Long time reader first time posting. DOM by nature loving/caring, but doing what's necessary to get my SUB into SUB space is really the foundation of my DOM confidence and what I derive my pleasure from. Impact play, sprinkled with praise/ praise humiliation, ropes is what gets her their.... What I am seeking from other DOM's and SUB's alike is other peoples creative approach to these things, so you (I) do not become stale. I know this is a me thing , but reading about peoples experiences really helps my imagination get going. I also recognize that what works for my Sub doesn't mean it work for yours. Just here to see what people are willing to share and what they found works for their Sub through their experiences. More directly how to keep the praise/ praise humiliation fresh. Sometimes I say things and I am like dang I feel like I wearing that sentence or phrase out and it's impact hahaha! "Good girl" "My dirty little slut" "Sir's pussy" making her repeat after me that sort of thing. I also know to communicate with her and just ask which I do often we are very open. However, I love surprising her and when I do she responds so well to that! Anyways I've rambled enough! Thanks in advance!