I understand that not every kink has a name and needs to be defined but I'm at the stage in my life where I'd really like to start looking for a dom so it'd be useful to know if there are any broad terms or names for the kind of dynamic I'm interested in exploring. I have a habit of over explaining myself and I'm just wondering if there is a simpler way to explain to someone what I like.

One thing that really appeals to me is the idea of me being expected to sexually service my dom. For example giving him blow jobs every night or whenever he wants them (sometimes with him ignoring me and just gaming/watching TV whilst I do it and other times allowing him to just use my mouth for a release once he gets home from work). Or perhaps being told to get on top and ride him for as long as he wants me to. It seems quite similar to a freeuse dynamic but instead of him just using me whenever he wants (kind of hot too but not the main thing I'm interested in) he would command me to do these things for him when he wants if that makes sense?

On the non sexual side but in the same vain I also love the idea of having to wash him and give massages.

I'm also massively into impact play and seemingly have a belt fetish so being spanked is a massive turn on for me too.

So any idea how to sum up the kind of dynamic Im interested in without rambling like I have here? 🤣

Thanks in advance.