I find the fantasy of a partner pretending to be my uncle, or father, or even older brother to be arousing. But it's not me fantasising about them being my actual father, uncle or older brother (or anything like them) that I'm aroused by?

It's sort of the idea that in an alternate universe, this man..the partner I'm with, could have been any of those things; and how twisted and mixed up (and ultimately..crossed-wires sexy?) that is as a notion to then be having sex with that person. More succinctly, the meta-understanding between us both that we/I enjoy the idea of fauxest, and how humiliating and shameful it is to like it.

I think that's what I find arousing about it, as I've never felt any kind of sexual attraction to real-life relatives. Only a concern about if that could happen, and to be always mindful and boundary-maintaining since I do have some kind of fauxest kink, I guess.

But yes, does anyone else have that? Hearing a partner ask things like "would you like if I was your [insert relative]?", "what if you were my [insert relative]?" or them talking about how they'd behave if they were still attracted to me in this alternate reality. Even in a casual conversation those elements are so arousing to me.

But is this fauxest, or something else? Does anyone else experience this form of the kink? I find myself a little insecure and in my head about what it could all mean, and it would help a lot to hear some other perspectives, thanks. :)