I’ve been interested for a while, but never taken the step to actually look into it. I’m female, in my 30s.

Any advice for where to find people to explore if this is for me? Not interested in anything in person at the moment, as I want to make sure that this is for me first. Also not wanting to share identifying info such as photos, and another limit would be not involving other people.

I’ve recently discovered crotch ropes and love that these can be a little bit of a tease, and just remind you that they are there, to so uncomfortable that you can’t stop thinking about it.

I do have quite a few toys, but love the idea of being told what to do by someone else, and not being able to choose myself. Where do I find someone else who might be interested in this? Do I just get people to post things to do here, or do I go somewhere else to find this?