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As a Dom, do you ever let your submissive do whatever she wants to you?
To be more specific, it’s not as if you’ve given up control, but rather you let her choose how she’s going to pleasure you, or let her maybe pick an activity of the scene ?
Different question along the same line, do you ever let your submissive take the active role in doing what she wants during the scene? And I don’t mean being bratty or disrespectful but maybe give her a general directive of I’m gonna lie on my back and you’re gonna find a way to make me come?
If you have examples for either question does should be appreciated ?
My Dom likes me to be an active participant in choosing how we play. He may start off by indicating he wants head, but ultimately it's up to me where it goes, positions etc. he may let me choose what or how I want something, but after a few minutes give me a challenge, like moving a bit out of my reach while I'm restrained. So overall his approach with me is very much "I want to know what you want to do with me, but that doesn't mean you're going to get it. And you'll have to work for it."
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