My girlfriend (f49) and I (m54) have a great dynamic when it comes to our BDSM life. She loves to be spanked (among many other things) mostly we use a flogger, belt or bare hands. She can get worked up to a fairly high pain tolerance. After a good spanking her ass is usually red and warm. She likes it when I leave marks, that can't be seen in public that is. My issue is, I can't really seem to leave any brusing for the next day. I wonder if I need to spank with something else to get the desired effect. I did just order a paddle on will be here this week. Looking for any advice on how to step up my "brusing" game. Thanks in advance!