I'm a straight male and have recently been given a green light by my partner to find someone to explore this kink with as she's not willing to take it as far as I want to.

FL has groups but the local ones are small and quiet, and I'm guessing we all know FL is less a dating site and more a community.

Browsing FL and other sites it's either a niche interest or something people aren't super open about or advertise, even on kink-centric sites. Googling nets me a lot of porn and a lot of Reddit threads and personals for men seeking men. I just want to find my people and hopefully someone to explore with. Anyone know where I might have better luck?