I(f25) am joining my local kink scene after being away from kink for a while. After a lot of contemplation, I realized I ultimately just want to be trained.

I want a solid dom/sub relationship in which I'm given rules, ritual, regulation, and trained. I seek the dopamine from reward training, from performing tasks, from being molded a little bit (of course, molded in a way that is pre-determined from both of us outside of play). Whether that be from cg/l training, pet play/puppy training, service training, etc

Unfortunately, I know saying "I just want to be trained and molded and hand over power" is a MAGNET for manipulative/abusive/bad doms and dommes. Additionally, I am autistic, which statistically makes me more susceptible to many manipulation tactics.

Tl;dr How the heck do I word/bring up in convo/elevator pitch that I'm looking for a trainer at munches/events? And more importantly, how do I do it in a way that doesn't signal "EASY TARGET" to bad actors in the scene?