I recently met someone here on Reddit. It’s a D/s dynamic, I’m a brat btw. The first time we played (Sunday night) I have to admit I was high AF and we played for over 3 hours and a half (sexting). It was the first time someone made me edge, and I didn’t brat (not that I remember), and I felt perfectly fine the next day.

Yesterday, we played again. It was a shorter session, but still, ~2 hours or so. He made me edge again, and I came when he allowed me to do so. The thing is that, it was a very intense orgasm, and I started having a headache right after the orgasm was completely gone. I thought it was because my sleep schedule is a mess and I needed to sleep ASAP. And that’s what I did.

The next morning (today) I woke up horny AF. I masturbated and right after I came, the headache was back. I have no idea why, so it took me a long time to start my work day. When I finally did, the headache was gone. I have been very busy all day, but I found some free time to buy some stuff he asked for. When I did, and I sent him a picture, the feeling was back. I was taking a look at our conversation and the hornier I was, the more intense the pain was. Then I was back to work and the headache went away, so now that i have time and energy to finish the rest of my assignments, the headache is back.

is this a drop? How long will it take to go away? I hate not being able to think about sex without getting a headache. Not sure if im just sleep deprived (I don't think so, as I sleep 6-8h daily, but bedtime has been around 2-4am. I don't feel sad or anything. Or any type of pain)

(Btw, he suggested to take a break from the dynamic. Extended my deadlines 48h, and told me that health is important and this is not a sign of weakness. That he understands if I need some time to recover)