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I am 39F and I just met a 42M on a dating app. I honestly looked over the part of his profile about SSC and RACK. But anyway, we went out and had a great first meet that led to us getting together again and it leading to sex. He’s a dom and I am completely inexperienced in this dynamic really. For me it was absolutely incredible and intimate. Like probably the best sex I’ve ever had. I’m kind of overwhelmed with emotional and sexual tension. I am wondering if this is normal for this dynamic or if this was maybe an exception? I’m trying to keep my expectations in check because I don’t believe he necessarily wants something long term? I I’m just not sure how any of this works honestly and would appreciate some insight.
I (36F) recently had my first experience with a Dom (34M) and I could have written your post verbatim as it's exactly how I've felt about it. I think it's very common and related to "sub frenzy" as well as that mental satisfaction of having a fantasy realized. Even if it was a fantasy you never really knew you had!
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