Im a 33 years old who has been exploring my kinks for the past year, been into BDSM for over 10 years and Yesterday I had my very first play session with a Pro-Domme, The fantasy of playing with her has been on my mind for years, but The fetishes I thought I enjoyed felt so dull, I was completely out of it. I felt like she’s faking the whole thing, And I didn’t enjoy a moment of the play, I even asked her to stop and talk when she asked me if I want to orgasm. She said that I don’t have the fetishes I listed or that we migh be incompatible. The experience left me thinking if this is really what I enjoy, Questioning my fetishes that I believed I loved when subbing. Do I only like the idea/fantasy of it and not the actual play ? Should I give it another chance with someone else after forming a connection? Any similar experiences would be highly appreciated.