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let me just preface this by saying that i am a dom leaning switch, and have not been the submissive one in any of my hookups… until now. basically, a girl i was with is also dom leaning, so i said fuck it, might as well try it.
it was fun. but it also kind of felt like i was doing nothing?
i kept having to remind myself to just, like, be cute and act pathetic instead of actually taking charge/guiding where things go. by the end, it felt like i wasn’t doing enough work, which is a WEIRD feeling to have during a hookup.
tldr: i know the typical tips and tricks to being a good dom/top, but what’s the equivalent for the other side?
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