My partner and I are trying something new and I'm nervous

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So, we're trying out me being more dominant. It's been hard as I'm not a dominant at all, but it's still been kinda fun since he's enjoying himself.

But we just got a strap-on set today for me to peg him and I'm nervous. We both very much want this, but I'm terrified of it not being good for him or something. I have no idea what I'm doing and I just really want him to enjoy himself.

Anybody have any good tips for what I should or shouldn't do? I already know to use lots of lube, but anything else? Any tips on how to be a bit more dominant?

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