I really feel like I should/need to talk with someone about my kinks in terms of where they stem from in early childhood as well as why I process certain things related to my kinks in certain ways and struggles I face with my self concept due to what turns me on sexually.

Essentially I just need someone who will let me vent to then and bounce my thoughts off of while providing me feedback, possible answers to my questions, and strategies to deal with any issues I have.

I've never done therapy and I'm assuming this isn't chill to do with a regular counselor or whomever so I'm wondering if there's some type of specialist I should be looking for? Preferably someone who has something actually binding them to keep confidentiality.