Hi all

I(M62) have been with my partner(F43) for two years and we are deeply in love (soulmate fromnthe moment we started chatting online). She is my first RL sub and I am struggling to put the strict Dom in my head in to reality. I am a people pleaser in real life and have always found myself being the "doer" in relationships, a bit of a "cinderella" situation where I am running round after everyone rather than telling them to do things for themselves.

My issue is, I have a great imagination and have had several online subs over the years and have never had trouble controlling them and telling them what to do. Sadly, in my current relationship, I am really struggling to turn my thoughts into reality. This is causing us major problems as my partner "needs" a strong Dom as she is not only a self-declared brat, she has many health issues that need "managing".

Has anyone got any suggestions as to how I can overcome this blockage I have and be the real life Dom I know I can be and the one she needs.