Hi Reddit! Last night, my boyfriend (31m) asked me (21f) to degrade him- which is quite the opposite of what I want (I'm more of a praise girly), so I have a really hard time finding things to say that aren't too mean or hit too close to home- Which I get might be the point (if so pls pls lmk) ..... Buuuuuuut..... a lot of porn typically focuses on the girl being degraded when I'm looking up that sort of thing soooo im finding it a little hard to find examples.I looove to make my boyfriend feel good and this being the first thing he's told me he's into in a while has got me a little excited- just honestly at a loss for what to say because I love and respect him so much and those words would never come out of my mouth not even in our worst fight.My high school boyfriend was into this sort of thing but more so liked being choked, and slapped, and he'd like it when I'd put my fingers in his mouth etc, etc... But what are good things to say? If ur into this sorta thing give me some advice :)

EDIT ---> This is ab how personal I can get I believe:
at the beginning of our relationship, my boss and I sort of had a fling I didn't cut off when we started dating... so he found a few messages and made me quit my job, etc. etc., but last night wanted me to tell him about how his dick was small and the reason I cheated was that I needed a bigger cock and went on to ask me how I wanted it and what I wanted to do with him. (this would take me too far, but he seemed to get off on it) and quick, too; I hadn't seen him cum that fast in a while. He enjoyed it, but that's the only experience I really have to go off of with him!

EDIT ------> Last night came again and this morn while talking to him ab the same thing- small dick and i needed him to fuck me harder to feel it. I also continued w the whole "ur cock is so small, i cheated on u w my boss bc I need i bigger one..." etc. and that was good....

iveeee gotta get creative
But what are good things to say? If ur into this sorta thing give me some advice :)
IM STUMPPPPPED I NEED EXAMPLESSSSS NOT TOO FAR (i asked he said his family and things too personal of that nature are a no but pls lmk)