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I tried talking to my new gf who is predominantly a brat about how we should discuss our limits and set boundaries. We had a safe word but when I tried to use it she was confused because she had forgotten it so I had also explained that we needed a new one something that doesn’t normally fit into a regular conversation. I was reassuring her that I wasn’t upset with her and that she did nothing wrong we just needed to keep the dynamic under control yet she started crying and ended the conversation. I guess my question is how do I navigate the conversation but in a softer way so that there’s the least likelihood of her being upset
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