I met someone on an app. He said he was kinky. We dated for about 6 months and it became clear that he was untrustworthy and mostly a liar about being kinky. He had lots of kink equipment but we only did one scene ever. He came over and tied my legs, spanked me and then he took a couple of pictures of my lower body. I was only wearing a thong. He sent me the photos and he showed them to me that night so I am certain my face is not in them. I logged into feeld yesterday and I was scrolling around. I noticed that he had pinged me. It must have been a long time ago because there were many other pings ahead of his. I opened it and saw that on his profile he was using one of the pictures he took of me. On one hand, no one would ever know it was me unless by some strange chance they recognized something in my bedroom from the picture. On the other, my bare ass is being publicly viewed on his profile. I never consented to him using the photo in this way but I’m not sure what to do about it. If I respond to his ping he’ll probably tell me to pound sand and disconnect from me. I feel vindicated as hell that I never let anyone take a face picture but I think from here out I’m not letting anyone take a picture of me at all. What should I do, y’all? Contact him? Let it go and resolve to do better?

Edit: I contacted support at feeld as suggested and they wrote back almost immediately apologizing this happened and said they were reviewing it. Picture is still up for now. We’ll see where this goes. I don’t think it’s worth reaching out to him. He wouldn’t care most likely and he’s such a liar I would never believe him if he said he removed it and won’t use it anymore.

Second Edit: img is gone from his profile. All hail Dean at feeld support for responding quickly and empathetically. I still think his whole damn profile should have been removed for posting pornographic images without consent. But at least my butt is not viewable by the masses anymore.