Hey! I’m trying to think of suggestions for my wife to domme me. She’s also a submissive, but knows I like her being dominant, so she’s trying for me.

I’m a crossdresser. My wife knows, she’s okay with it, but isn’t into it sexually, so please don’t suggest “have her force you to dress!”- she wouldn’t enjoy that.

I’m looking for suggestions on things she can “force” me to do, where she’s making me submissive for her. Where she truly benefits, whether it’s sexual or not.

She’s hotwifed me a couple times, and we’ve full swapped once with another couple. She knows I get off on her with other guys.

Lastnight, I told her to make me clean her pussy after I cum in her, and she said “who said I’m gonna let you fuck me? I want you to finger me first” So I started eating her out/fingering her. Every so often, she’d make a comment like “is that the best you can do? [swing partner] did it better than that.”

I was able to make her cum that way. I then fucked her until I came, then cleaned her up.

She did great for being super new to “domme” behavior. She still acts like she doesn’t know what to do/say. That’s why I’m here looking for suggestions.

I told her that if she EVER can’t sleep and gets horny, that she should wake me up and make me go down on her, and not let me have sex with her after, just as a show of dominance.

I’ve considered a cage, but honestly I think that would freak her out a little.

Does anybody have any suggestions I could give her to try?