Title basically says it all, but I’ve been having trouble staying in the moment while playing with Doms (I have a few consistent partners) because I’m constantly worried about not looking/being “small” enough. I’m short, but I’m also on the thicker side and even though I know, logically, my partners are choosing to be with me and therefore have to find me at least somewhat attractive, it’s hard to keep that in mind when I can see my own rolls, chub, etc. Any other subs dealing with this?

EDIT: holy shit I was NOT expecting this to get as many votes and comments as it did…thank you everyone for sharing your thoughts and wisdom, I truly appreciate it and I’m sure many other plus size kinksters do as well!!! Thank you 🥹❤️