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We have had 6 dates, no full sex, and out of nowhere he called me his "favorite toy." There was no prior discussion of kink and he knows my trauma history. I don't even know if this is a misguided flirt attempt or he really sees me like an object to be used. If I ever did have a kink or discuss such a thing with him, I would be the one calling him a toy. I was violently assaulted by a man who pretended it was bdsm with zero mention of kink or consent ever in our lives before; is it a common thing to just launch into humiliation kink now? I don't even know how to address this with him now. Don't bring someone into your kink without a conversation, especially when they have trauma.
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