Hi all Just trying to wrap my head around this one. I first jumped on the scene about two years ago. Met a playmate on fetlife and we had a great time for about a month. Ended not long after he pushed a boundary that left me emotionally hurt and upset. Flash forward to last month, I just got out of a toxic relationship. I put out a personal here on reddit and he just happened to respond to it, not realizing it was me. I let him know up front who I was and that I'd give this thing another chance if he could be open, honest and communicate with me. He agreed and we kept chatting. Conversations went well for about two weeks but something would keep coming up to where he couldn't meet with me.I tried to believe most of these reasons and they did sound legit but.... Conversations became shorter if we even had any and the last time I chatted with him I let him know I was going to a coffee shop and that I was hoping to see him there but of course, he never showed and decided to ghost me. I was open to communication with this guy and really I was looking forward to being his submissive again. He was Primal, aggressive and honestly just clicked really well with what I wanted in a Dom. Just not sure why he'd ghost me. If he was trying to emotionally hurt me, why would he waste his energy on that? Do people do this when they get scared or just when they can't communicate like an adult? I'm sure he'll see this but if he doesn't have the guts to talk to me then I really don't care what he thinks. It's s childish move and I would expect better behavior from someone who claims to be a Dom. Thank you everyone for your input.