So, I am 28 M, have been exploring kinks for a while. But recently like going through the posts a that are present of reddit makes me think, like aren't you kinda manipulating your partner/sub and impacting there mental health in a way.

Sometimes I feel in a way my sub starts wants me to treat her like she is not even a human anymore. And I feel a bit sad for my partner that way. As she has always been a confident and powerful woman, and i love that fact about her.

so, it Makes me think have i pushed the wrong buttons, like i understand that a sub is submissive but in a way has the power to control the dynamics and set the boudaries of a dom-sub dynamics. But it's turning into a dynamics where sub loses her own individual identity.

so just thought to add the post here, and have a conversation with other subs and Doms to see what they feel about it.