My current partner is incredibly kinky, has a high tolerance to pain and enjoys our play.

However she only comes AFTER tons of manipulation with vibrators.

I also see that she does come slightly faster if I come first (which I generally don’t do but have been modifying for her)

We have done magnificent scenes, but not sure I can incorporate aspects of orgasm denial if you can barely come to begin with. (Note i don’t get off on this but she has asked for me to deny orgasms…then feels bad because she can’t come anyways)

Any good ideas on how to incorporate her physiology and make it super sexy for her? For those of you who can only come with vibrators what’s good on your end?