She is a sub. She said she has a hard time asserting herself.

Her last serious relationship was definitely a toxic insecure Dom who got abusive at the end. Ended in the cops being called. She broke it off and blocked him.

She's been out on two dates with this new guy and he's pulling stuff like "what did you do last night" and "did you let him cum in your pussy" and "that's my pussy so how come you didn't get permission" and "I'm disappointed in you" when she says she had sex with another guy. They haven't had any sorts of conversations about a 24/7 arrangement. They don't have a relationship. What he really wants -- if you ask me -- is a woman that he can control. He did use the phrase cum dumpster.

I'm like "🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 run away"

But I'm hoping to figure out a way to help her be more proactive about this stuff. Ideally an article about avoiding toxic Doms that I can forward. Or just a checklist of things to watch for.

Her and I have dated in the past. We are close but I am not interested in a relationship with her. In case you think I'm trying to sabotage these guys. I'm not. I'm the one who talked her into signing up on Feeld so that hopefully she could find a kinky guy who was actually also decent. Didn't work, she bailed because it got overwhelming.