Okay first of all english is not my first language so sorry for any grammer errors etc.

So as the title states, I (19m) am with my gf (18m) for almost a year now, I am madly in love with her and I genuinely think of a future with her. We’ve been on trips and everything is amazing. But our sexlife, it’s not bad at all, but all of my other bedpartners were a lot more on my level with kinkyness. I’m very submissive and i’ve had experience with bondage, cnc, impactplay, degrading etc etc. And it is still a huge turn on for me. My current girlfriend doesn’t like it at all, we have talked about it and it even scares her a little bit which I find awful. She feels insecure that she doesn’t fullfill my needs sometimes. An open relation is an absolute no-go.

Any tips with how I can remove my kinks for myself or anything? Thankyou in advance:)