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I need some advice. I met this Dom on a dating app and we facetimed that same night. I wasn't allowed to see his face, I hadn't earned that yet. He had plenty of pictures in his dating profile so I didn't mind. After that facetime, he ignored and ghosted me for 2 weeks. During that time, his original profile on the app was gone but there was another one, with different pictures and a different name and age. Found that 2nd profile on a different dating app. So now I don't know his name or age. Last week he texted me again, we facetimed again. Told me I'm beautiful and how he can't wait to make me his wife. We text and he demands all kinds of pictures from me, so he can show his coworkers what a beautiful slave he has. (I didn't agree to be his slave). Everytime I ask him something super basic he tells me to shut up, that slaves don't ask questions and that I'm not to have any boundaries or even ask for a safeword. Last night he told me he wants to basically pimp me out to other men, and that I can't say no because he's the Dom and he decides everything, I can't talk back.
I know this is all a massive red flag, he never once asked my boundaries or anything really, but just demands. I know I should dump his ass but is there any way to make him listen? I want to be his so bad, I don't think I've ever been this attracted to someone, but he's such an ass - how do I make him respect my boundaries, while still being a good sub/slave?
UPDATE: I blocked him on all platforms.
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