So this past weekend I went to my first kink event. It was a naughty nurses and doctors themed party with areas to play. It was pretty cool. So when I arrived there was a female Pro Dom that kind of took me under her wing for the night and showed me around and introduced me to some people. She was super dope for that. So later on she starts to explain how she’s a full time Dom. She brought a bag filled with floggers and paddles and things. I let her use the flogger on me and give me a good spanking. I have a high pain tolerance and she actually tired out after a few minutes. It kind of made me question her authenticity. I could be wrong. In the end, she gave me her info and wanted me to book a session with her. I highly doubt I will. I was just wondering is it common when being a newbie in these spaces, for Doms especially, to kind of swoop in on fresh meat. Any tips you guys can give when I may be approached by them. Things I should know. Warning signs. Anything will help.

Thank you in advance!