I, 18F, am in college and a virgin. I've only kissed 4 people ever and I've never done anything beyond making out and sexting. That being said, I am actively in search of a dom or sub, not only for play but also for a genuine connection.

What worries me is that my overwhelming need to be held and cared for is going to cause me to overlook warning signs and not be solid enough on my boundaries if it means having a dom or sub. I'm especially worried with doms, especially due to my impulsive obedience. I know what my limits are, but I'm worried I'm going to pressure myself into a bad situation thinking it's a way I can prove myself to someone I've glorified.

How do I keep myself in check from entering a dangerous situation just for the sake of having someone?