I (27 AFAB NB) will hopefully be pegging my partner (25 M) for the first time tonight. If not tonight, then very soon 😁

I got a nice harness that fits well, and a 5” dildo. They fit together well.

I’m relatively new to exploring my dominant side, but this is something I’ve been wanting to try for a long time, and my partner has some experience with it, but it’s been awhile.

Any tips for first timers? Anything I should know about right away? What positions are the best? How can I avoid causing negative types of pain? I still have a lot of insecurity about actually hurting him vs. roughing him up because he likes it.

Any and all advice and tips are welcome!

I’ve been watching some videos, and they’ve been helpful, but I wanted to ask those more experienced than myself.

Thanks in advance!!