As you can tell by my post history I have no shame when it comes to my kinks and the exploring of them. I believe that as long as it's between consenting, human adults everything should be possible.

Now, I have a bit of a system where I start by exploring things online through (mainly) roleplaying over phonesex. This has worked out great in the past ans has led me to experience some amazing adventures.

Now recently i've begun leaning towards CNC and R-fantasies. I am aware of the dangers and have a pretty good grasp on how to approach it safely, but would still like to take the phone-roleplay approach before taking it into real life to see if the idea works as well for me as I think it might.

(This is my system, I am well aware of the fact that IRL and virtual are still a world apart, but it has worked for me so far)

Now, i've run into the issue that most subreddits ban the use of the terms CNC and everything assosiated with it. I am also struggling with finding any kind of media relating to it.

So, where do I go from here? Fetlife has never worked for me and I don't plan on going to try that again.