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I think I will have my first scene soon as a dom and I am uncomfortable on whether I should or should not kiss. This is not a limit neither to me or her, but I usually associate kissing with love and affection.
We agreed that we do not plan to love each other (things can always change!) and I am afraid that I won't be showing a tough enough version of myself by kissing.
Is kissing usually expected? Perhaps a kind of "groping kiss" fits the mood?
(Don't worry about other stuff. She's experienced, we are discussing limits, and what we plan to do in this particular scene.)
INB4: Of course I can ask her. It's possible that I may very do that. But I'd like to know what the general expectations around kissing are before.
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