I'm [29m] a dom leaning switch and I have a poly partner [30f] who is a sub leaning switch. Recently, she has been hooking up with a "pleasure dom". She told me that she had the "wildest sex" of her life and he came 7 times and she came "infinite" times.

I'm beyond happy that my partner found a new dom who's pleasuring her and she's happy, but the feeling that I get now is that I'm not as good of a dom. Like if I dom her on Tuesday, it's going to be nothing compared to that wild experience she had last weekend. On top of that, she's seeing him again tonight, which doesn't make this feeling any better.

Any thoughts on how to mitigate these feelings? I want to up my game and be a really good dom.