Let me preface this by saying it's not a personal ad. I want to know if there's specific names either the kind of sub I am, or dom I'm looking for. I want to use clear language when asking for what I'd like to avoid any miscommunication.

Edit: Since people are telling me I should provide more info on the post, I'll do it here. I meant to put it in the comments but I didn't think that thru, my bad.

I'm a young (gender-fluid or non-binary, not entirely sure which) male in his mid 20's. I'm bi-curious, but definitely have a preference for the ladies lol. I love being told what to do by an authoritative, yet reasonable woman. Someone who challenges me to work to please and impress her, but doesn't make me feel like my effort isn't good enough. My personal biggest sexual interest is playing with her body, cunnilingus especially. But I want to fulfill her sexual desire to the best of my ability, in whatever way she pleases. I don't want to hire a sex worker to do this, not that I'm opposed to sex work. I just want to do this with someone who wants to with me, just for the sake of having sexy fun. I prefer more gentle type of domination, more into praising for doing well rather than degraded. I'm not opposed to acting more feminine if she's into that.