(M)y sub has expressed over several years throughout the course of our relationship that she has a more 'hard core CNC' sexual fantasy to the point where she is being r*ped. I'm looking for advice from anyone who's done CnC before on how to execute this well.

After many conversations and growth in our dynamic, we're at a stage now that I'd like to help fulfill this fantasy of hers as we've developed into a more formal Dom/Sub relationship and through our scenes has shown she truly wants this.

She's into hard and rough impact play with degradation and humiliation. We've agreed that our scene will have a "break and enter theme where the robber has been stalking her and is taking what he now wants." We're going to start the scene by me leaving the house for some time, then coming back as the robber.

To add to it, I'm thinking of 'kidnapping' her by throwing her in the back of the vehicle to add to it.

I'm finalizing a contract that has what's on limits and off limits, so she is at least somewhat aware of what is coming. But, she has indicated she wants me to 'drop the loving husband and take what I want against her will', and she has expressed knife play turns her on, with cutting as well. We're also going to agree upon a time limit and a word she can use that immediately pulls the plug and starts aftercare.

I'm looking for advice to gelo execute this more extreme kidnapping rpe like scene, with someone who has been sexually assaulted and rped before. I'm worried during the scene this will bring back those intense emotions from being an actual victim. As well, advice for how to make it different from a regular BDSM scene.

Thanks in advance kinksters 😘