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I’ve known my dom for little over a year now and it’s been a great time. When we first met we agreed that our relationship would simply be an FWB relationship and we would explore what we each liked. I met him on Fetlife and got pretty lucky because he’s handsome and has been/ is very caring to me. We chatted on Fetlife then moved the conversation to Snapchat and text. We usually meet up in hotel rooms(he has roommates and I live with my dad) or we met each other during lunch.
I did something maybe I shouldn’t have but curiosity got the best of me. We agreed that we wouldn’t cross into each others personal lives.
I think he’s married. I haven’t confronted him about it. But I ended up finding out his full name and I looked it up on Facebook. Everything is private but his profile picture is definitely a wedding photography photo. I also can’t see how old that photo is.
A part of me still wants to continue the relationship without confronting him about anything so I can still continue getting what I wanted from the beginning which was more BDSM experience. If I choose to continue to play dumb about it I’m eliminating some kinks. One being that I won’t let him collar me and this one other kink he has of using certain objects on me for anal.
(Am I playing with fire?)
I know I probably ignored the first rule about BDSM which is to know the other persons information/share DL. I guess I am naive? Another part of me also wants to confront him about it. I’m pretty disappointed honestly in myself for maybe not trying harder to get his information and in him too for not telling me the truth.
This is just a rant I guess because I don’t share with anyone about my sexual life.
TLDR: my dom may be married? Just a rant.
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