I'm(F25) in an LDR and DDLG relationship and my dom daddy (M25) is also my boyfriend. We've been together for over three years but lately we've been hitting rough patches in our relationship for things that are outside the dynamic but has definitely affected our dynamic.

You can imagine, domspace and little space are nonexistent right now, and conversations are being had outside the dynamic as equals.

On the side of our relationship, there's this guy I have a strictly physical-relationship agreement with - I found him attractive and my dom allowed me to pursue him. My dom had put in place boundaries of things I can do with him and we had one semi-successful session together, and when he left I was back with my dom on call the whole time talking it through, giving each other love etc.

Here's where I need advice. In my head the things that I'm allowed to do or the guy is allowed to do are too few. I am definitely craving more. My relationship being long-distance makes the craving so much more stronger. Dom and I did some negotiations on things we can add to the list of things we can do, but he wouldn't budge after a certain relaxation.

On the one hand I need to completely understand his boundaries and 100% respect them but at the same time my head's spinning because I'm about 100% certain that this guy I'm seeing has more experience than me and can show me new ways I can be pleasured and it'll be a healthy change and I want to experience it.

What do I do?

Edit to add ages and genders for DD