I remember the day we met. We moved fast. I always move fast. Better to put yourself out there entirely and get the rejection out of the way sooner rather than later. [Kate's Daddy Issues]

I remember packing up a tray of home made penne bolognese and driving the 45 minutes to your house to secretly drop it off without your kids seeing me. I asked you to be my boyfriend that day. I was fresh out of my last relationship, was not looking for anything serious, and had just ejected from a toxic 12 year friendship with a guy who exploited my kindness and dragged me down. [Kate's "Caring for Everyone Around Her But Never for Herself"]

I met your kids within the first two months. [You went on dates with other women.]

You said you wanted to marry me in the first four months. [You didn't file for divorce until we had dated for two months. Your kids had only seen you living single for two months before that]

You proposed at Christmas. [You were paying money to women online for sex acts. You were posting personal ads and sending messages looking for a serious girlfriend because I "didn't make time for your kids" who I accepted with open arms]

We got married in March. [Your divorce was only finalized in January]

We got pregnant in April. We have to put your dog down [You started more relationships with cam girls. You didn't last 3 days after getting married. You're looking for a new girlfriend according to your reddit posts]

I lose the baby [You reach out to local women looking for a date. You scream at me when I say I feel like I need moral support. I AM ALONE]

We get pregnant again [You are still talking to other women. You use KiK at least 4 times a week to talk to different girls]

We build the garden. Get chickens and bees. We seem so happy. [You're still talking to girls you used to fuck. You're on OnlyFans and sending money to girls you used to fuck]

We lose the second baby [You emotionally isolate me and tell me it's unfair to ask you for a hug and to be told everything is going to be ok. You meet up with a woman at a hotel twice while I'm at home recovering]

Our birthdays happen. I feel like things are really positive. We buy a huge saltwater tank and dive deep into a hobby together. [You ask a girl online to be your girlfriend. You tell her you love her and want to have a baby with her. She buys plane tickets and makes plans to move here]

It's Christmas. You do NOTHING. You ruin the day for me. I made sure the kids had a great day. I always do. [You tell your girlfriend I was abusive to you and shitty to your kids. You tell her this is your house. You say "Kate Who" when she asks about me. You tell her you had nobody and nothing for Christmas]

January. We fight about sex. You talk to me like I'm there for as a receptacle for your sperm. I try to be sweet and more affectionate so you know I'm still interested [You're spending money on cam girls weekly. You're telling your girlfriend you want her ring size. You're planning her visit out here]

February. No Valentine's for us. No anything for us. You say you want a vasectomy. I say "I thought we were trying". You realize we still have a future. You ghost your girlfriend. [She really loves you. You're buying cam girl stuff every week. You're messaging women vulgar things online, soliciting... although you deleted the account before I could verify]

March. Happy one year anniversary. We buy a $5500 generator and $6500 of new appliances [I learn about your girlfriend... I learn about a lot of things]

April. My life is shattered. I learn about everything on my own. Your past is a lie. The man I thought you were is gone. I'm sad and alone and obsessed. I miss the kids. I'm stuck. I'm crying. I'm sick. I'm alone while getting blood work and invasive tests and trying to figure out if it's cancer. I can't work.

It's so dramatic. It's all so much. My life felt so normal. Even on the worst days, everything was OK. We didn't agree on politics... but we seemed to just "get it". I'm in therapy twice a week. I'm on medication now.

You're a very sad story. I had no idea you were sick. Now you've passed that sickness onto me.

I miss the man I thought you were... but when I look back at this timeline... there wasn't much free time for him to exist with all of this bullshit going on. [Kate moves too fast]

I've got a lot of growing to do if I want to avoid these mistakes in the future. It's unsafe to trust so quickly. Trust grows over time. Without trust.... all you have is a sad story.