He went over to a woman's house last week. He met her on a dating app before we met. She wanted to date him, he wasn't interested, so they were "just friends". They texted a lot, but he was mostly talking to her about me. She still clearly had feelings for him, and at some point she asked him to go to a funeral with her because her boyfriend wouldn't (the funeral was for an ex of hers). I said "if I can go, then you can go" because I knew her intentions. She said "nevermind". Apparently he kept in touch with her for a while after he said he stopped. Eventually he deleted her number. Fast forward to him being kicked out of the house for a host of lies deception, paying whores, and an emotional affair. He's trying to work on himself and is struggling to find a therapist. He decides to drive to this woman's house (because she's a therapist). He doesn't get why I'm upset. He said "it was just to get help finding a therapist". He showed up, unannounced, to this woman's house.... he's been there twice in a week now (that he's admitted to). I just can't handle this. He is upset and thinks it's ridiculous that I'm accusing him of being attracted to her and of something maybe happening. I asked if he'd have her and her "boyfriend" contact me. He said "and if she won't I'm just fucked then?"... yeah man. If you can't prove you weren't there with her alone, you're fucked. I can't handle this anymore. I'm so tired of discovering new things. I'm so tired of having my feelings dismissed. I just want to give up. I don't have the stomach for this shit. I'm one more bad thing away from calling it. I don't even see the point anymore.