Does the hurting ever ease up? Does anyone else find themselves wondering if it’s even possible to move on from this? He is trying, he has respected everything I ask, but I can’t stop thinking of the words he said to her. Most significantly the comments about my weight. We had just had a baby in December of the last year, I became a stay at home mom and I was so damn skinny when he first new me because I was overcoming a meth addiction. Now that I have weight on me it’s a problem and I am currently losing it. I guess that was my kick in the ass, but man it hurts hearing someone tell another person their wife is to fat for them, especially when this wife begged him to take me to the gym with him. I am still so damn lost!!