DDay was 2 months ago tomorrow. WH and I have started IC, we are in MC and have now gone 2 weeks without a fight or disagreement. WH attends weekly SAA meetings and has not had a relapse (to my knowledge) in about 6 weeks. WH has been extremely remorseful throughout this entire process. Our 1st wedding anniversary was this weekend, I told him I thought the responsibility of planning our day should fall on him and he planned us a cute date and a romantic dinner afterwards. He gifted me the wedding photos he could salvage (I burned the entire album on DDay, oops) and a heartfelt letter I asked him for 2 weeks ago. He’s done a great job of keeping up with my ever changing needs and wants and respected my feelings so well. It seems like since our last argument 2 weeks ago something shifted in both of us and there’s excitement and love and desire to our marriage again. Is this R? Or is this just a false R and things will fall apart eventually? I’m a little wary since it’s SO soon. I’m also wary on completely forgiving him, since it’s also SO soon. Does anyone have experience with this? We already went through HB, followed by weeks of arguing so I don’t think it’s that again. I could use some insight!