Almost 3 weeks since DDay, my WH and I are in the process of trying to reconcile, although I still have my doubts about wanting to stay every now and then. I told him when everything went down I wanted him to win me over again and we’re operating at business as usual. No flowers, no messages spilling his heart out to me, nothing. I didn’t tell him I wanted this, as I feel like that’s just begging and I’m telling him what to do rather than him actually putting in effort to do so. Am I wrong for being upset about it? How do I bring it up to him in a way that doesn’t seem like I’m begging or asking? Or do I leave things how they are and allow it to dictate if I stay or leave? He’s in therapy and attending SAA, I’m sure he will tell me it’s for me but I don’t think he understands it’s to fix HIS problems that shouldn’t have been brought into our marriage and should’ve been handled before it. I appreciate any advice, WP or BP welcome.