Hi all,

I’m 6 weeks into in my infidelity journey. It’s still so early so it’s hard to see a clear future, but we are still in each others lives.

My question to those who have successfully reconciled is - what boundaries did you need to set to move forward with the relationship? Did you have to take time apart? Was there transparency with the betrayers phone and social media?

Apart of me wants the transparency from my betrayer, with her phone, while another part realizes that’s very unhealthy and shows “I don’t trust you” - before infidelity, we never went thru each others phones.

I know I can trust her fully again, but I need her to show me with actions, however, idk what that entails right now…