My husband says he stopped DMing on discord, and now only uses a couple of servers that I know about. But he was showing me how good he’s been doing with his “screen time” since he’s trying to cutback on it, and I saw it said “45 minutes on discord” …but he didn’t post a single thing to the servers I’m aware of that day. He has removed essentially everything from his laptop, but I peeked anyway and saw his most recent searches were “iCloud photos” related yesterday. And when he came home from therapy the other day, I asked him how it went and he immediately changed the subject. Usually he’s excited to tell me what they worked on. I just feel in my gut like he’s hiding something again, and I have no way of knowing. It makes me feel nauseated. He says I can look at his phone whenever I want but, but I know asking to do so will cause a huge problem and then what if I don’t find anything. He’ll be so upset and it won’t make me believe he’s behaving anyways, I’ll just think there could still be something and he just hid it better than he used to. How do you deal with uncertainty like this? Do I just… assume if there’s something wrong going on he’ll slip up in a way I’ll find evidence of eventually? Do I check his phone and risk fucking up what progress we may have made?