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Do people ever actually stop if they've been doing it a long time with one AP? I want to have hope, but my hope level has been diminishing. Yes I know ppl will judge me for staying and comment I deserve it but that's fine. It's just really hard to give up on him. It's been going on for a long while. He knows I know. I bring it up often. I just want to see how many successful Rs have happened for couples who have been through the battle. When they say they want to stop...do they mean it?
Edit to add: What are some things your WH did to help you and prove that they wanted to stop and reconcile? What are some things that you the BS asked the WH for when reconciling?
Unfortunately he can't go full no contact as he has children with her. But I stated that he can go as much NC AMad possible and only discuss things related to the kids. Also I had asked him to not go to their house and go to a public setting. I don't feel like I asked to much in that area.
Thank you for the response. What we're some of the things you did to help your wife gain back trust in you?
I really appreciate your response as a WH. Honestly it's great feedback. Thanks for putting yourself out there.
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Those were my exact thoughts as well.