Hi everyone, As the title indicates, it's been 10 months since D-Day. The early aftermath was filled with remorse on her part. She appeared genuinely regretful for her actions and the damage they had inflicted on our family. She seemed to understand and empathize with my emotions, frequently checking in to see how I was coping. There was a sense of playfulness, flirtation, and overall, a strong indication that she was interested in mending our marriage. However, as time has passed, her attitude seems to have shifted significantly. On days when I'm struggling, when intrusive thoughts dominate my mind and I need to discuss them, she appears less than empathetic. She seems annoyed, often responding with eye rolls, leaving me with the impression that she's wondering, "How are you not over this yet?" Whenever I confront her about what I perceive as her cold and indifferent attitude, it seems to result in more conflict rather than resolution. She becomes defensive, and unfortunately, these interactions push me back into a darker mental state. I am seeking advice from this community: Is this a typical behavioral change for a wayward spouse during the reconciliation process? Should I be altering my approach in any way? Is it still appropriate to express my emotions and concerns to her? Any insights or suggestions would be deeply appreciated. Thanks in advance.