I am a Dominant but also respected and known as Mentor by many within and outside the lifestyle. I do come with references if needed for vetting a potential play partner. I have evolved over the years...into a much more loving, caring and forgiving parental role (caregiver) in the past 15 or so years.

I was raised in a 1950 type household where my father and mother were a practicing BDSM couple in a D/s relationship. My father taught me from a young age to be successful in business through hard work and life as a Dominant personality. I have been around the lifestyle and successful my entire life. My younger years were hanging out with kinksters with who my parents were friends. There was nothing monogamous about their relationship and I was raised and loved by various submissive’s that lived or frequently visited our strict household. I do have a need to control, but a Dominant always balances "control" of his submissive keeping a directive, to ensure safety and security always and meet the needs and desires of a submissive in his care. I care deeply for the physical, mental and emotional well-being of any submissive. I do have a type that I desire and love to mentor in D/s, namely someone is either experienced in D/s dynamics or identifies just as a novice submissive. This would include those looking for training and education in and out of the lifestyle as a submissive… Distance is not an issue with the right submissive to meet. Just be serious and not waste my time nor will I waste yours. I can always host; I do own a beautiful 3br, 2 bath home in NE Oklahoma on Ft Gibson Lake where you could visit or live sometime in the future after we meet and build trust and a connection. I'm comfortable in my household as I have everything needed to submerge a submissive into the lifestyle if she chooses. I own a humble successful but small nationwide A/V business...have a lot of time at home as I can set my own schedule. I’ve been successful in business and investments and retired at an early age (45). I'm looking for a playful submissive who is seriously looking for training or a D/s Dynamic with an awesome older, experienced man. I don't do online without the intention of meeting someone in person first, so don't ask. I’m hands on in mentoring and only work with motivated sub-missives. I am financially secure and independent if that matters to you. I do travel a lot and you can go with me, even when I work. I just returned from Palm Springs CA and the month before I was in Scottsdale AZ for two weeks. I’m preparing for a trip to Monterey Bay in January for business and pleasure with a layover in Vegas on the return trip. I fish, hike, hunt, camp out, ski and spend time with other like-minded kinksters at different national events. I also am self-sufficient and have been taught to live off the land. I possess two Grad Degrees, MPH and MPA and sapiosexual and intelligence and deep intelligent conversations turn me on. Here is an opportunity to live and learn with a caring, loving, compassionate and intelligent/educated Dominant where your submission is earned and appreciated… Just moved from a location on West Coast I have lived for over 30 years. My submissive partner did not move with me after a 15-year D/s (light BDSM) relationship. In otherwards I am 100% single at this stage in my life and never bitter or sad. Being an older Dominant and a mentor, let’s just say there’s not a lot of opportunities to find younger submissive’s or littles/middles who want or play and learn with an older experienced Dominant. Somewhere I thought would never be w/o a play partner or submissive... Always Looking for friends locally (NE Oklahoma/surrounding area), My Assets... Honest. Patient. Kind. Understanding. Compassionate. Strict. Educator, Leader. Observant. Committed. Knowledgeable. Real. Loving. Caring. Strong. Available. Intelligent. Teacher, Open-minded. Respectful. Dominant, Adventurous. Playful. A DOMINANT ALWAYS... Pawnee