West Country UK guy looking to possibly re-enter the dating scene after almost 4 years.
Yep, been single a while (by choice, I may add).........so any baggage nicely left in the airport it belongs in!!! I'm 5'8, around 85kgs and quite well built (not a ripped gym bunny, but my job is quite physical which keeps me in shape......and apparently a bit "hench"!) Deffo NO belly hanging over the belt though, and below the belt.........kinda 7 inches and girthy :)

I've never dated outside of my age range, and to be honest, I have dated quite a lot (more than my average looks would warrant :) ) But........whats the old saying?

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results!"

So.......having always been very much "in my lane" regarding the age of the ladies I've dated.........maybe the simple fact is that I don't gel well with ladies my own age. Which leads me here, to the possibility of dating somebody younger. To be totally straight, I don't tend to "assume" a lot and thought maybe the best start would be just to make friends with a younger lady, just to see how things go, and see if we get on and have things in common. I would still like that "friend" to be local-ish though, as if something nice develops ("if".....remember I dont assume things!) it would be nice for that person not to be several thousand miles away. And even if it goes nowhere, romantically, it would still be cool to meet for a coffe now and then (my treat!).

I dont have a "type".....plus past experience would suggest that my "type" hasn't actually been.....well.......my "type" :) So happy to just chat and see what happens, this is very much a learning curve for me so if you're expecting to be swept off your feet by some ultra confident older guy.......I'm not for you. I have 2 grown kids, who have both left home :) I have no problem with someone having kids, its always actually sounded a bit "asshole-ish" when guys blow women out coz they have kids.

I treat people very well, probably a little too well, but genuinely care about the people in my life and like being the guy that people can rely on, and feel safe around. There is no horrific temper lurking anywhere within me, I don't cheat, gamble, do drugs (apart from a cheeky weak smoke to take the edge off the day) and have never, ever lifted a finger against a woman, and never will. (jesus.........I really cannot bear all this "self promotion" crap"). I get out for a drink with the family around once a month, so definately not a heavy drinker (though a few beers and a boogy does still go down well!)

Yes, I'm a fairly sexual guy, and enjoy doing all the things involved in building that side of the relationship, indeed, I certainly haven't been afraid to post whatever I like on reddit as I go through the process of having fun but am starting to find it slightly shallow and boring, and would love to start something a little more cozy, safe, familiar and fun..........not to mention having an emmotional connection as well as just a physical one.

I lliterally have no idea if this sounds remotely interesting to younger ladies...........I read it back and it sounds like a load of thirsty old crap, but everyones gotta start somewhere, right.

DM anytime :) even if its just for a free coffee :D