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Pics of yours truly are available in my profile, both SFW for your everyday browsing and NSFW ones at your own risk. (MF) video content featuring me is present too.

About me

33M, 6'1, full time UX designer and quite secure in my career, able to provide for myself and saving for my own property. Hobbies and interests are the usual nerdy reddit fair of gaming (a lot), anime, scifi/fantasy and reading. I also stream on twitch regularly and I have a pet bird, a Sun Conure.

Also included are the basic level interests of exploring new restaurants, cooking, keeping fit (weights, cardio) and a good road trip. I’m open to things in general and happy to indulge in your interests as I hope you will in mine. I draw the line at anything involving my awkward ass on a dance floor though...

My music taste is mostly EDM. The harder the better. Throw in some irish folk music, epic music, gothic darkwave/synthwave, K-pop, selective portions of Metal and accapella/non-instrument using music.

For those curious: MBTI style is INTJ. Enneagram is 426.

Love Language preference are Physical Touch, Quality time and Words of Affirmation in that order, followed by everything else. I like to show affection by being a caring figure, a source of advice, deep conversational partner, making food for you and generally creating a safe space you can be yourself in. Whether that state is vulnerable, horny, hungry, sleepy or a combination of all those and a few extras.

I'm DDF (with tests) and GGG. Big fan of cuddles, copious foreplay, quality time sharing hobbies and other intimacy. Pretty open to kinks and such, and would be very interested in exploring a DDLG style arrangement with someone. I am open to both poly/ENM and monogamous relationships with a preference for finding a poly-nesting partner, though i am currently unpartnered outside of FWB arrangements.

What I'm looking for

I'm after a woman, younger than me (age gaps are fine), to build something consistent, fun and respectful with the view of potentially being something more. Playing games together, working out, exploring restaurants and anything else we can think of.

Being entirely honest, if you want a shot at a more serious relationship than FWB, then being able to share my hobbies with genuine interest at least on some level is basically non-negotiable. The foundation between us should be mutual in a physical and intellectual sense. There are only so many times you can go out for dinner and a movie with someone before coming home to have sex and call that a relationship. Trust me, I’ve lived it.

The ideal scenario is a poly/ENM arrangement built on strong communication, mutual trust and passions. I am also open to FWB/casual relationships, especially if you're not sure if you're ready for something more, or if thats just want you want for the moment. I’ll treat you with warmness and affection either way. I’m respectful of boundaries, attentive, seek active consent and always seeing to know your likes and dislikes.

As mentioned, age gaps are fine. I am happy to teach and mentor someone and provide guidance. I consider myself very patient and understanding in this regard.

We can get a drink/ice cream/boba tea in the city first to suss each other out if you'd feel more comfortable.

What I offer

I have a place with a view over the CBD, privacy and the ability to drive, so hosting is not a problem.

I am a consistent, communicative, and passionate partner that wants to give a great time to you, make you feel cared for and be a valued rock in your life that you can rely on whenever you need to unload, escape from your problems for a while or just feel good for a bit.

I love to cook and know many great spots we can get a feed, so you'll be taken care of in that regard! Cooking together or as a group is also highly encouraged.

Use Reddit chat or send a PM with as many pics and info about yourself as you're comfortable sharing :)